Embracing Using Donor Eggs This NIAW
Some couples and individuals need donor eggs to successfully conceive, which can evoke a wide range of emotions. As we observe National Infertility Awareness Week® (NIAW), it's important to acknowledge the use of donor eggs as a valid method of fertility care and help aspiring parents embrace their unique path to parenthood.
Who May Need Donor Eggs?
Donor eggs are an excellent option for women who have specific chromosomal or genetic conditions that could be inherited by a biological child. Egg donation may also be suitable for the following individuals:
- Women who have had their ovaries surgically removed
- Women with premature ovarian failure
- Postmenopausal individuals
- Women with a history of recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL)
- Women who have experienced multiple failed IVF cycles
- Cisgender gay male couples
Navigating Emotions Around Using Donor Eggs
Using donor eggs can trigger various emotions. While it's exciting to enhance the chances of pregnancy success, female partners in heterosexual relationships may feel sadness knowing their child is not biologically related to them. These feelings are valid and normal. It’s important to note that the male partner can provide his sperm to fertilize the donor egg, creating a biological link to the child.
Many women using donor eggs often worry about their ability to bond with their child. However, bonding is a gradual process that usually doesn’t happen instantly, regardless of whether a baby is conceived using donor eggs. Research shows that by the end of a baby’s first year, most mothers of donor-conceived babies feel secure and confident in their role as parents.
No matter what emotions you experience during your fertility journey, know that you are not alone. You can find a support group with other aspiring parents using donor eggs and seek assistance from a mental health professional. Remember that the ups and downs of this journey can help you create the family of your dreams.
Learn More About Donor Eggs
Using donor eggs can be an emotional experience, but embracing this process allows you to bring a cherished baby home. If you're considering using donor eggs, Egg Donor America and Egg Bank America are available to answer your questions and guide you through this incredible and fulfilling journey. Contact us today for more information.